Please pray for the confusion and all encompassing gamut of feelings running through our family right now. My son got a bad third degree burn on his leg. His wife has done nothing to help him wrap it or treat it, so he brought the supplies through my yard for help. Because there have been times in the past where there were conflicts involving him coming to his mother for certain things right next door because she absolutely is not the babying type when it comes to taking care of him. It's not a character flaw. Just the way she was raised. His father (my husband) passed away almost exactly a week ago and she does not seem to fully understand why he's so heartbroken and out of sorts. And how he is still struggling so bad. Now he is sitting in his garage trying to bandage his badly injured leg by himself because when she was at my door coming to help, my dogs were all barking and I couldn't hear what anyone was saying, so she just huffed off and went back home. It was like she thought I didn't want her here, but I was just trying to keep the dogs from getting out. Now there's hurt feelings and misunderstandings all over the place and because she just decided to jump up out of bed and try to drag the youngest boys back over here, my son took off walking back through the yard to their house and the boys jumped up and down right on top of his injury, so of course she yelled at my son (the injured person ) and I just turned around and came home. I don't understand why she can be so uncaring and constantly misunderstanding everything. My son needs comfort, understanding and love from his WIFE. He's the one who had to walk in and see his father dead on our bed that morning and it was so awful and he can't get that image out of his head. Please I won't be here for too much longer either. A week after my husband was sent home on hospice I found out I had breast cancer. My children have been so helpful and kind toward me, checking on me constantly, and so has she, but I haven't even been able to make words come out of my mouth yet and she's taking huge offense about it because she doesn't understand my mental limitations and takes everything personally.