Please pray for my youngest son and his wife and 5 kids. There's a severe issue with trustworthy babysitting for the 4 and 6 year old boys while school is out for summer. I live right next door and used to be able to stay over there while they worked. Now I can't leave my husband alone for even a few minutes because of changes to his health status, plus my hand is fractured since 10 days ago. My son has a somewhat variable schedule because he has a job where he's required to clock in and also owns his own construction company. He has to be somewhere working almost 7 days a week. His wife works about 5 days every week, always from 8 am to 8 pm. (12 hours every day she works.) I'm wondering if they can give her shorter hours but it has never seemed like it. She's been there over a year. There's a daughter age 17 with severe mental disturbance who also lives there but would be a very dangerous situation for her to babysit or be in charge of anything in the home. There's also a just turned 12 year old daughter of hers who is mentally incapable as well. In the beginning of the wife's starting to work outside the home, they didn't need the money. She was severely depressed and slept all day, neglecting the children even when they were babies. They'd be found wandering outside naked in the yard, cold and hungry sometimes when I'd stop by. She said she needed to spend more time away from them to be able to enjoy and appreciate them and to be a better mother and person. I became full time babysitter and everyone literally BLOOMED. It was impressive. School started, preK and kindergarten and I would watch them afterward and weekends if she and my son both worked. Things turned horrible when my husband got very sick and we've had to have hospice set up along with my own health has taken a downturn, plus it's summer time so the kids are all home all the time. Now, here's the crazy part, they've been demanding that my 11-year-old mildly autistic grandson, who is the most mature and sensible person that lives there, watch those boys by himself when she's work and my son has to either go clock in at the company or do something with his own business. My 11-year-old grandson tries, but things get out of hand with 4 and 6-year-old pretty fast. He calls me frantically and says I need to go over there because the youngest is going completely wild and not minding or staying in. Not staying out of things he's not supposed to be into and just taunting the six-year-old until there's an all-out sibling war between the two toddlers. I have to tell him I can't come because of the situation we have right now in my own house. He's begged me to do something about it he's told his dad he can't handle it and that it's too much, and all my son says is figure it out, you're 11 years old you should be able to do it, I did more than that when I was your age, I don't know why you're making such a big deal about it they are just little boys. He's going out of his mind and it's not a safe situation at all. Please pray that somehow some way a better babysitting situation can be found for everyone's sake.